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Positive commandment · Mitzvat Aseh #214 of 613

For a groom to rejoice together with his wife for a year

לשמח חתן את אשתו שנה

Parashat Ki Teitzei כי־תצא · Sefer HaChinuch #582

The verse · Devarim 24:5

כִּי־יִקַּח אִישׁ אִשָּׁה חֲדָשָׁה לֹא יֵצֵא בַּצָּבָא וְלֹא־יַעֲבֹר עָלָיו לְכׇל־דָּבָר נָקִי יִהְיֶה לְבֵיתוֹ שָׁנָה אֶחָת וְשִׂמַּח אֶת־אִשְׁתּוֹ אֲשֶׁר־לָקָח

“When a man has taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer his wife whom he has taken.”

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The Rambam’s words

For a groom to rejoice together with his wife for a year, as [Deuteronomy 24:5] states: "He shall be free for his home for one year."

לשמח חתן את אשתו שנה, שנאמר: "נקי יהיה לביתו שנה אחת" (דברים כד, ה).

Why · Sefer HaChinuch #582

The commandment that a groom rejoice with his wife for one year

“It is from the roots of the commandment that G-d, may He be blessed, had it come up in thought in front of Him to create the world; and His desire was that it be inhabited with good creatures born from male and female that mate properly — as licentiousness is an abomination in front of Him.”

Who & when

“And this commandment, regarding that the people of the city not force him to go to war, is practiced at the time of the [Temple], as then we would sometimes go out to war.”

Where in the Mishneh Torah

Hilchot Kings and Wars הלכות מלכים ומלחמות

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